6 Steps To Win Your Ex Back – Even If You Were A Jerk

Well old buddy, there you are crying in your beer and feeling sorry for yourself because your ex finally got enough of your crap and walked off. You’re telling everyone that will listen to you how much you love her and that you don’t know what happened. Now, you want someone to help you win your ex back.

Well, I’m here to help you but I’m going to shoot straight with you and tell you some things that you don’t want to hear. But if you want to get back with your ex, you need to face some facts.

1. Be honest with yourself, you know why she left you. It was because you treated her like crap. You ignored her and went out drinking with the boys, leaving her home alone watching television. When you decided to pay a little attention to her, you expected her to greet you with open arms. And she did – for awhile. You’re going to have to eat some dirt if you want to get back with your ex.

2. Look deep – why do you want her back? Is it because your ego is bruised or do you really love her? If you really do love her, then start showing her that you do.

3. Think of what you will change. Can you change? Do you just want her back so that you can go back to the same old ways that drove your ex away to begin with or are you ready to be the guy she wants you to be?

4. Think of how to approach her. Don’t do anything to irritate her more than what she is. You need to be humble but don’t beg. She still has some good feelings for you so be careful and don’t destroy them. Above all, don’t get mad and retaliate for anything she says. If you lose your cool, that could end things for good.

5. Try to work in the good times that you had. If you can get her to laugh, you are part of the way home. Don’t try to close the deal on this first meeting. Realize that this might take a while and go slow.

6. Be convincing. You might not be much of a salesman, but you better give it your best shot. Don’t over do it. If you are sincere, and you had better be, then let it all hang out. You know what she likes and dislikes, so that gives you one foot up. Tell her you miss her and would like to see her again. Leave it there. She might be calling you.

If you do these 6 things and then play it cool and wait for results you have a good chance of getting your ex back. But, you have got to be ready to live up to whatever promises of change that you make to her or next time she will be gone for good.

6 Steps To Win Ex Back

Some times men are jerks but most of the time they are not. But girls are different from men. They require a lot of attention and tender loving care. It’ easy for them to feel used and neglected. That’s just part of their femininity. So men must be very careful not to upset the boat. I don’t mean that a man should not be himself, after all if she dosen’t love you for who you are, why is she with you. Just let her know quite often that you think she is special and your life will be a lot easier. Here are the other things that you can do that will make you her prince charming.

Sometimes you will find that on the first meeting she misses you as much as you miss her. If that’s the case, welcome her back with open arms and live happily ever after. If however she is stubborn and you need more help, here are some excellent ideas that will melt even the hardest rock.