One of the main reasons it is so hard to repair a breakup is the lack of communications. When your ex won’t talk to you and you are still very much in love with him, you need some expert advice to get your ex back.
After the breakup, you may have the urge to try to explain the problem that led up to the split, but if your ex boyfriend will not talk to you, it can be frustrating as well as heartbreaking. But fortunately, there are things you can do that will help you get your ex back even if he will not talk to you.
The first thing you should do is to honor his wishes and not try to get him to talk to you by constantly calling him. This will only cause him further irritation and he might make up his mind that he will never talk to you again. Today there are many other methods of communication that can work better than using the phone. Sending an email or text message can get great results if you do not abuse them.
Here is a way to get your ex boyfriend to call you. This works like magic because it will work on his psyche and create a mystery that will compel him to want to know the answer. Send him one email – do not go blasting him with hundreds of emails if this does not work right away. It might take a little time, depending upon how strong a will he has. But, if you have some patience, it should make him call you.
The purpose of the email is to create some mystery. Make him have the irresistible desire to know what you mean by the message in the email and he will become obsessed at finding out what you mean.
In the email, you will simply thank him for teaching you something very important and tell him that you would very much appreciate a call because you need some more advice on the matter. This is sure to get his curiosity working overtime and he will have to call in order to get to the bottom of it.
When he calls you, it will be a crucial time in the battle to get your ex back. You will need to be strong. No crying, begging or demanding. Be honest and sincere. When he asks you what you meant by the words in the email, tell him that the important thing that he taught you was that it is better to put the wishes of someone you love ahead of your own, and you owe him an apology for your actions that caused him pain. This simple email will have opened up communications and given you an avenue to get your ex back