In addition to losing the man that you love, the rejection you feel is hard to take. You feel unwanted and discarded. Along with the panic that you may have lost the love of your life forever, it can be enough to make you act out of character and make mistakes that you later regret. This is not the way to have him begging for your love. You need to learn how to make your ex boyfriend regret the breakup.
A large part of the trouble and mistakes that women find themselves enmeshed in is due to the feeling of rejection. This is a very powerful emotion that can cause you to lose your self esteem and dignity. Look back at your life since childhood and think of the times you have felt rejected and how it made you feel. Perhaps as a child you were excluded from a game, or the boy you wanted to take you to the senior prom chose another girl instead. You may have been turned down for a job or even fired. All of these happenings caused you to feel rejection, but none as bad as the feeling when your ex boyfriend told you the relationship was over.
You can get your ex boyfriend back, and the surest and quickest way is to turn the feeling of rejection to him. Think of it this way, the main reason you are so determined to get your ex back is that you want to erase the feeling of rejection. It stands to reason, that if you can make him feel as if it is you that is rejecting him, he will do almost anything to get you back. This can be much easier than you think, but you have to make sure you have your emotions under control. If you think you can face your ex without falling apart, you should arrange to run into him ‘accidentally on purpose.’ When you are face to face with him, put on a big smile and tell him you are glad to see him because you had been planning to call him and thank him for the breakup, wish him well and walk away. Doing this will boost your confidence 100%.
Next, you should concentrate on yourself. Do things that you enjoy doing and keep your mind off your ex as much as possible. You have done all you can do for now. When your ex gets over being stunned, he will realize what he has thrown away and he will be feeling the same rejection you were feeling and you will be another step nearer to getting your ex back.
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