After a breakup, you will be searching for words you can say that will bring your ex boyfriend back. Since you are still in love with him you might think words of endearment would be what would make him sorry he broke up with you. But, you would be wrong. If you want your ex back you need to not only know the right things to say, but how and when to say them to get the best effect.
Your instinct will urge you to tell him how much you love him and you cannot live without him. If you had broken up with him you would love to hear your ex boyfriend say those words. That is because you as a woman view a breakup in a different way than your ex boyfriend. Since he looks at things from a different stand point, you need to approach things from another angle.
The fact that you were stunned and hurt so badly by the breakup, might make you want to put all of the blame on your ex. But there were two people involved in the relationship and you both had responsibilities. You have to face the fact that you had a part in the breakup, or your ex boyfriend would still be with you. That is why you have to offer him an apology. By doing this he will look at you in a more positive manner. He will respect you for having the strength and maturity to accept the blame for your own faults.
You do not want to go into any lengthy explanations and do not cry or beg. Just tell him you are sorry for causing him pain and that is all that will be needed. Then you are going to add that you can see that the breakup was for the best. It might be hard to do because you do not really feel that way, but if you want the man you love back, you have to do what is necessary. You have disarmed him with the apology, and when you tell him you accept the breakup, he will feel rejected. You might think that it would have no effect, since he broke up with you, but it will hit him like a truck.
Men do not handle rejection very well from anyone, but from an ex girlfriend it becomes a challenge. Suddenly he will want you like never before. That is why you have to say the words to bring your ex boyfriend back. But you also need to say them at the right time and in the right way to have the best effect.