When you lose the man you love, it can be the most emotional time of your life, and why shouldn’t it be? You have put a lot of your love and soul into making him happy. Then one day he walks in and says he needs some space. This almost always takes you by surprise, and so he has all of the advantage. He can watch you cry and beg, while he stands there as unfeeling as a rock.
He should be ashamed of himself, but he is not. In fact, he is secretly enjoying your crying and begging. It feeds his ego and makes him feel he is irresistible to women. You should let him go and forget him, that is what your family and friends will tell you. But you love him and despite him hurting you so badly, you want him back.
These proven tactics to get your ex boyfriend back, can win him back almost immediately. But as anxious as you are to be in his arms again, you should teach him a lesson. If you just forgive him and let him back in your life without him hurting a little too, he will keep breaking up with you. You cannot let him take for granted that every time something does not go his way, he can run off in a huff and you will take him back.
The best way to get your ex back is to let him go for a while. Move on with your life and act as if he does not exist. When you are around mutual friends or members of his family, do not even mention his name. Act as if you are enjoying you life and finding new and exciting things to do all of the time. If they ask if you are dating, change the subject and act mysterious.
Word will soon get back to your ex boyfriend about how happy you are and that they suspect that you may have a new boyfriend. By the time he hears this, your ex will have had time to start missing you. Hearing that you may have a new boyfriend will hit him as hard as his needing space hit you. He will start feeling the same rejection and hurt that you felt.
Suddenly he will realize that the silly little game he was playing may have caused him to lose you. Then the desperation will set in and he will not be able to stand it another minute without finding what you are doing. This will make him contact you and begin begging you for forgiveness. Do not appear to be anxious to have him back. Make him work to regain you love and he will appreciate it more.
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