One of the most difficult things to face when a breakup happens is that the man you thought you would have by your side for the rest of your life wants to move on without you. When you see all of your dreams being scattered to the wind, it is easy to be angry and want revenge. You see the love of your life walking away and you want him to feel the same hurt and humiliation that you are feeling. Everyone in this same situation has probably felt the same thing, but that is your heart talking and not your head. If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, getting revenge is no way to do it. This kind of tactic will just make him vow to never have anything to do with you again. Your best chance of getting your ex back is to control your emotions and make the right moves at the right time.
The first thing you should do is to look back over the past few weeks and see what caused the breakup and correct it. This might be something that you did or said that caused your ex to become upset and feel he needed time to think things over. The breakup was not entirely your fault because it takes two to make an argument and no matter the cause, your ex boyfriend should have been a little more understanding. Since he chose to break up with you, that indicates it was something you did to offend him. If you love him and want to get your boyfriend back, it will be up to you to correct the problem and convince him that it no longer exists.
You might be tempted to contact your ex once you feel that you have found a way to correct the problem, but that could be a big mistake. If he is still angry and trying to sort out whether he should forgive you or move on without you, any contact with him at this point could be disastrous. You would be much better to go on with your life and ignore him for now. This will be hard to do, but it is your best move right now. Once he has time to get straightened out, the problem that caused the breakup will not seem so big to him. He will start thinking of the good times you had together and this will cause him to miss you.
When he starts to miss you, it will only be a matter of time until he will want to know if you still love him and he will make the first contact. Once the two of you begin having communication, you are only one small step from getting your ex boyfriend back.
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