Feeling the rejection and humiliation of being dumped can make you plan ways to get revenge on your ex boyfriend. But, if you still love him and want him back, revenge will only push him farther away from you. You want to make him regret losing you and you can make him feel this regret if you use this powerful technique to make him see how much he needs you.
If you lose your man by getting revenge, what have you accomplished? If you think he is gone for good and you might as well hurt him as much as possible, you had better reconsider. Nearly every relationship can be saved by using the right tactics. Getting revenge is a negative thought and if you want a future with the man you love, you need to be positive.
When he first met you, your ex boyfriend saw a confident and independent woman. He decided you were the type of woman he needed to share his life. Something happened to make him unhappy, but if you try to get him back by crying and begging, he will be sure you are not the right woman for him after all. You will appear needy and desperate instead of confident and independent.
To make your ex boyfriend regret losing you, it will be necessary to accept the breakup and stop having any contact with your ex for a few weeks. He needs time to get over his anger and begin to miss you. You need time to get a grip on your emotions and do some thinking as well. By showing him you can live without him, you will make a start to change his attitude.
Your ex boyfriend cannot regret what he doesn’t care about losing, so you have to show him how to regret losing you. Think of the way you were when he first started chasing you. What special personality traits you had and do you still have them. Think of things he used to say he liked about you and if you have changed, you need to recapture the woman you were then.
Of course you can’t be the exact woman he fell in love with, everyone changes, but come as close as you can. Your ex boyfriend might have been confused and hurt because he felt he had already lost the woman he loved. You might have become nagging and pushy or you might have become too dependent on him. It is easy to slide into bad habits without being aware of it.
You still have most of the good qualities that made him fall in love with you. Just work on getting rid of any bad ones you have acquired and you will have a good chance of making him regret losing you. Most men have an image of the woman they want to spend their life with. You fitted that image once or he would not have fallen in love with you. To make him regret losing you and make him see he needs you, it will be necessary to fit that image again.