Your boyfriend did something to upset you and you told him you never wanted to see him again. Now you see that he is the only man for you and you should not have been so hasty. When he left, he was pretty angry and now you do not know if he will talk to you or not. Your friends tell you that you should just let things stand as they are and let him go. But, they are not feeling the loneliness and deep sense of loss you are feeling. You are sorry that you acted the way you did and you would like to apologize to him, but you are afraid he will hang up on you. So what can you do?
First of all, you are not the first woman that has found herself in this position and you can benefit from their experience. Here are some effective tips to get back the man you love, that others have successfully used. If you are afraid to call him, you can send an email. Not a long drawn out one that begs for forgiveness or offers a lot of excuses. Just say that you are sorry for hurting him, wish him well and leave it at that. This should help soothe his hurt feelings and make him have a more favorable view of you again.
Your next step will not be one you will want to take, but it is absolutely necessary if you want your ex back. Your heart will be telling you to follow up your email in a few days by calling him. That might ruin the good start you have made. Your ex will need time to think over your apology and realize how much he still loves you. This will cause him to see the void in his life that being without you has caused and he will begin to miss you. Soon your ex boyfriend will start remembering the good times he had with you and yearn to have them back.
Getting back the boyfriend you dumped is a process of healing. By making the apology and then giving him time to forgive you, you are showing your sincerity and he cannot help but be impressed with your compassion. The combination of missing you and realizing that you love him enough to admit your mistake will cause him to want to be with you again. This will make him call you and say that he would like to meet you for lunch and have a talk. Once you have him back, you will have to be sure not to lose your temper and act so fast again or the next time he might be gone for good.