In a moment of anger you told your boyfriend you never wanted to see him again. Now you are regretting your actions and want your ex back. You know that you were the one who caused the problem and you want to tell him how sorry you are, but he refuses to talk to you or answer your text. However, you are only thinking of what you want, just as you were when you caused the breakup.
To get your ex boyfriend back, you will have to put yourself in his shoes and see how he feels and what he wants. Whether you can get your ex back will depend in a large part to what you did. Why did you tell him to get lost? Was it some thing he did or something he caught you doing? Did you cheat on him or lie repeatedly or was your ex boyfriend the guilty party?
Before you can even start getting back the man you love, you need to face the truth about what caused the problem to begin with. Of course if it was just a lovers quarrel and you both still love each other he will soon get over his hurt and simply saying you are sorry might be all it will take. But if it was of a more serious nature it will be more difficult. But, no matter what the cause, you will not get your ex boyfriend to talk about it while he is still angry and hurt.
The best you can do at this time is to send a text and say you are sorry and you are thinking of him. Do not mention the word love or that you can’t live without him. You have to give him time to miss you and that means staying away from him for now. Time has an almost magical power to cool anger and ease pain. So give time a chance to make your ex see how much he needs you in his life.
Another strange thing about being alone is that the memories you have is more about the good times than the bad. This is what helps the pain of a breakup to heal. Men usually fall more in love when they are away from the one they love. When your ex begins to think of the certain way you looked at him and how good it felt to have you in his arms, the longing for you will begin.
He will start to feel the love for you, but if you cheated or repeatedly lied to him, his pride could keep him away from you. Words will not be enough to make him come back to you. It will be necessary to prove by your actions that you can be trusted. If you were cheating, you will have to prove to him that it is over for good. This won’t be easy because once a trust is betrayed it is not easily regained.
This doesn’t mean you can’t get your ex boyfriend back and have a happy future with him. But, before you begin you must be prepared to have patience and swallow a lot of pride. Love is hardly ever easy, it has to be worked at every day, but in the end you will find it is worth it.