How to Approach and Attract Women
First of all before you go about approaching
women, it would be good to know what women want from men.
Say you are at a gathering, perhaps a party or
at a friend's house, and you see a woman that is very
attractive to you. But, you are shy. You certainly don't want
to go over to her and be embarrassed by getting the cold
shoulder.
So, how do you approach a
woman? Well, there are many ways that are
innocent and won't get out thrown out of the party such as:
1. Put a boyish smile on your face and
introduce yourself. "Hi I'm Joe and I'm a friend
of Carl and Diane. I come over here quite often but I don't
think I've seen you before. Are you new in town?"
2. Notice her drink - if it's about
empty ask her if you can get her a refill. Say - "I'm
the designated waiter here tonight." (It just may make her
laugh, which is the next point)
3. Make her laugh. The easiest
way to a woman's heart is laughter. If you can get her to
laugh, half of the battle is won.
4. Be interesting. Find
her interests and talk about them. Talk about her. Don't go
telling her how great you are - that's an immediate turn-off
for a girl. Show you are interested in her.
5. Don't be pushy. Just take
it slow and easy.
If people giving the party have children,
mention them. Tell her some of the cute things they do. Show
you like people. Be pleasant and courteous.
If all goes well, say - "I hope I'll see you
again." If she says, "I hope so too." Watch her eyes. If they
are shining and pleasant when she says that, you could take a
chance and ask her for a date right then and there.
If you don't think the time is right - then
wait. Check with the hostess in a few days to see if the lady
had mentioned you to her.
Play it slow and easy. Remember, always try to
make them laugh!
For more in depth information on approaching
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The guide takes you through the
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women are a strange species, and they appear even more
confusing and intimadating when you want to first start
talking with them.
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