Women Communicate Differently

Probably you've had the experience of a woman telling you something, with you taking it at face value, only to find out that she meant something else? Very frustrating, right?

Why is it that women do this? Why do they want men to “figure them out” instead of just telling them something straight up? For guys, telling someone something straight up makes perfect sense—it’s how we interact with our guy friends.

However women communicate differently. The same words spoken by a woman can have way different meanings and outcomes than words spoken by a man.

Here's how men and women communicate differently:
You see, women make decisions based on internal feelings in the moment, whereas men tend to take a more literal view of things. Because women use internal feelings in their primary decision making process, they are sensitive to others feelings as well—and will often say something that is designed more not to disturb the other person’s feelings than to express an action she’s about to take.

Men just pretty much say what’s on their mind, and expect others to do the same. That’s why taking what a woman says at face value, like we would do for a guy can be so frustrating. But, if you understand the process that’s going on, it can actually be very enlightening.

Here’s what to do:
When she says something to you that has an emotional connotation - such as Do you like me? Do you think I am fat? You don’t understand me! etc. - don’t respond on a logical level. Respond in a way that creates the emotional state she wants you to put her in — attraction, uncertainty, and responding to authority.

All she’s asking you to do is change her emotional state to something she would prefer to feel. Sometimes that involves listening, sometimes a naughty comment, sometimes something that makes her laugh, and sometimes a demonstration of authority.

How do you know when to do what?
By paying close attention to how she reacts to what you say to what she says. As you go through time, you’ll build a pretty complete "cause-and-effect map" of what to say and do when she says something.

What you’ll discover is, most things she says fall into three or four categories, and so you only have to know one way to deal with each one.

What this does is it allows you to anticipate her behavior, which is something women crave in a man. Have you ever heard, “he always knows what I’m thinking?” This is usually said in a dreamy sort of way, because women love a man who knows what she’s thinking, but they can rarely find one.

So, if you master this skill - and it’s really easy to do - you’ll be known as that rare guy who “knows women.”

You can get a free copy of 'What Does Your Woman Really Want' by visiting this page. Inside the report, you will find helpful details to better understanding what makes a woman tick and how she views a romantic relationship.